Sunday, January 16, 2022

"Get Yourself a Ph.D. in Shoe Shining", January 16, 2022

 Get Yourself a Ph.D. in Shoe Shining
By Rev Jamie Green Klopotoski
Based on 1 Corinthians 12:4-11
January 16, 2022
First Congregational Church, Rockport, MA
Watch here: https://www.facebook.com/rockportucc/videos/350843759836681

Tomorrow we celebrate the birthday of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr, though his actual birthday was yesterday. Had he not been assassinated for his radical preaching of love for all people, he would have just turned 93 years old. Instead, he died at the age of 39, just one year older than I am. In addition to leading the civil rights movement with bus boycotts, marches, and nonviolent protests, he was an ordained minister and co-pastor of Ebenezer Baptist Church in Atlanta. His activism led him all across the country and he found himself guest preaching at churches nationwide, including at the New Covenant Baptist Church of Chicago in 1967, where he preached one of my absolute favorite sermons, titled “The Three Dimensions of a Complete Life”. In it, he describes how the best life is a three dimensional life, the three dimensions being the length -- loving yourself, the breadth -- loving others, and the height -- loving God. This metaphor was his way of describing what Jesus called the greatest commandments: Love the lord your God with all your heart and soul and strength (the breadth of life), and love your neighbor (the width of life) as your self (the length of life). 

The movement that Dr. King led, his speeches and sermons and unparalleled dedication to equal rights have always spoken to me, but especially this sermon, and especially this part in it where he discusses the length of life, loving your self. He said that self love requires self acceptance and a part of accepting yourself is discovering what you are called to do and then doing it. Here is an excerpt from the sermon: 

‘We must discover what we are called to do. And once we discover it, we should set out to do it with all of the strength and all of the power that we have in our systems. And after we’ve discovered what God has called us to do, after we’ve discovered our life’s work, we should set out to do that work so well that no one could do it any better. Now this does not mean that everybody will do the so-called big, recognized things of life. Very few people will rise to the heights of genius in the arts and sciences, very few collectively will rise to certain professions. Most of us will have to be content to work in the fields and in factories and on the streets. But we must see the dignity of all labor. 

When I was in Montgomery Alabama I went to a shoe shop quite often. And there was a fellow in there that used to shine my shoes, and it was just an experience to witness this fellow shining my shoes. He would get that rag, you know, and he could bring music out of it. And I said to myself, “This fellow has a PH.D. in shoe shining.”’

King continues, ‘What I’m saying to you this morning, my friends, even if it falls your lot to be a street sweeper, go on out and sweep streets like Michelangelo painted pictures; sweep streets like Handel and Beethoven composed music; sweep streets like Shakespeare wrote poetry; sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will have to pause and say, “Here lives a great street sweeper who swept his job well.”’

Even though King spoke these words 55 years ago, it sounds like he is speaking directly to me today. I’m going to get personal for a moment…The past few years have been rough for me. It started before the pandemic, but the pandemic certainly didn't help. The last time I was with you all, preaching a sermon at this very pulpit, was back in 2016, when I was in the midst of launching a brewery church I called Agape Brewing Community. 

For years I felt called to open this nonprofit brewery with the mission to brew beer, to build community, and to change the world. The idea was that we would make and sell beer, lead community-oriented events, and donate all of our profits to local charities. Long story short, due to problems with permitting, the brewery had to close before it even opened. (By the way, this turned out to be a blessing in disguise because just two months later, the world shut down because of the pandemic and I would have had to close any way. I count my blessings every day that at least I was able to close the facility without too much of a financial hit!) But it was still devastating to lose the brewery, because I didn’t just lose the brewery, I lost the dream, I lost my calling, I lost myself. Something inside me broke from that experience and I’ve been working hard since then to fix it. I continue to struggle to hear that still small voice inside of me, to figure out what my calling in life is, to discern what my reason for being is. 

But King’s words give me hope. No matter what it is that I am called to, no matter what I find myself doing in life, the true calling is to be the best of whatever it is I end up doing, in whatever circumstances I find myself in. It doesn’t matter if I’m a journalist, or a youth minister, or the owner of a nonprofit brewery, all of which I once felt called to be; it matters that I do my best with whatever gifts have been given to me. As Paul told the Corinthians in our scripture lesson this morning, we may have all been given different gifts, but they all come from the one and the same Spirit, so all of our gifts, no matter what they are, all of our gifts are important and valued, even if that means we have a gift for shoe shining or washing dishes or formatting excel spreadsheets. 

Since the closing of the brewery, I’ve spent a lot of time discerning what my gifts are, what my reason for being is, what it is that I have been put on this planet Earth to do, and it’s remarkable that my journey of discernment has led me full circle back to you here this morning, by way of how I now feel called to use my gifts of music and preaching. Here’s a quick story:

Last summer, I was invited by a friend to join a volunteer Big Band that performs weekly at a senior center in Peabody. Since I didn’t have a job, I had Thursday mornings available, so I said yes. During our first gathering, one of the trumpet players introduced himself to me as the conductor of the Rockport Legion Band and asked me to join that band since he really needed saxophone players. I said yes to that as well. During one of our concerts in Rockport, I played a solo and Bob introduced me to the audience as an ordained minister. One of the French Horn players just happened to hear that and just happened to be looking for guest preachers for her church, so after the concert she approached me about preaching there, and I said yes. A few weeks later, I was approached by the deacon of another local church who was looking for guest preachers, and I said yes to that opportunity as well. And then last month, I performed in the Rockport Legion Band holiday concert right here at this church; I ran into Rev. Derek, we discussed my recent experiences guest preaching, and he invited me to be here this morning. Because I said yes to using my gifts, because I had faith that God wasn’t done with me yet, because I didn’t give up, because I tried to do the best I could. 

I actually find myself thankful for all these twists and turns that my journey in life has taken me on, because while the journey has been rough with many bumps along the way, it’s also been a journey full of moments of surprise and delight and encouragement and love. And throughout it all, no matter what doubts still linger, no matter how confused I am about what it is I’m supposed to be doing in this life, I have learned that the details of what I am doing are way less important than the details of how I am doing it—three dimensionally, with love of God, neighbor, and self as the ultimate goal in whatever I do -- striving to do the best with what I have been given. And I hope, in honor and memory of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr, that you all will join me and strive to be the best that YOU can be, no matter where you find yourself in life. Whatever your various and differing gifts may be, use them the best that you can. May we all live three dimensional lives, loving God, loving all of our neighbors, and loving all of ourselves. Amen. 


Sunday, January 9, 2022

"You Are Loved", January 9, 2022

 You Are Loved
By Rev. Jamie Green Klopotoski
Based on Matthew 3:17-21
January 9, 2022
First Baptist Church, Gloucester MA
Watch here: 

It is REALLY hot in Israel. A few weeks ago, I told you a story from the time I spent in Jerusalem and Bethlehem with a tour group about a decade ago. Today, I’m going to tell you about our time at the Jordan River. I know it is pretty cold outside right now, but try to imagine being in the hot desert. It was my fourth day in Israel. We spent every one of those four days underneath the desert sun. And every time we got back on our air conditioned bus it felt like Heaven. On the morning of the fourth day, we drove to a baptismal site on the Jordan River. This is where tourists come to be baptized, or to reaffirm their baptism, in the river where Jesus was baptized.  As we pulled into the parking lot, we saw a sign dedicating the site, saying that we were not far from the place on the river where Jesus was baptized. Our tour guide informed us that “not far” meant 120 miles away. We can’t actually visit the exact site where Jesus was baptized, because that part of the river is now in Jordan's territory and is not very safe to visit. 

We climbed out of our nicely cooled buses and back into the hot sun. We stood in line to pay 24 shekels (about 6 dollars) to rent a white tunic and towel and then headed off to the dressing rooms to put on our bathing suits and these white tunics. Then all of us, gowned in white, gathered near the edge of the River. We lined up at a set of stone steps that led to a shallow section of the river (just 4 ft deep), and we waited. And we waited. The sun beat down overhead. The water reflected the sun’s glory. It was SO hot. Beads of sweat formed on my forehead, as each person in white walked into the water to be baptized. I stepped into a very shallow part of the water to try to cool off my feet, but I was attacked by tons of little fish. The Jordan River is supposed to be “living water”, so Israelis dump these fish into the river to literally make it living water… but they bite!! I continued standing in line, squinting in the sunlight to see the other people on my bus get baptized, until finally it was my turn. 

I slowly stepped into the river until I was about waist deep. The water was clear and beautiful. I waded over to a man, a pastor, who took my hand, and asked my name. He then said, Jamie, I baptize you in the name of the father, and the son, and the holy spirit. And then I plugged my nose, and he dipped me back into the water until I was submerged. The water felt glorious and absolutely amazing after being in the sun for what seemed like forever. I felt refreshed and alive, and ready to go about my day. That water felt so GOOD. I remember thinking, no wonder baptisms are so holy! If I spent every waking hour of my day in the hot desert sun without air conditioning, I’d be baptized in the water all the time! Seriously though, it was an absolutely wonderful experience, because in addition to being immersed in the gloriously cool water, I felt immersed by the love of God. 

I was reminded of this powerful experience at the Jordan River while reading today’s scripture lesson, especially the line after Jesus emerges from the Jordan River at his very own baptism, and a voice from heaven is heard saying, “This is my beloved Son with whom I am well pleased. He is my chosen one, in whom my soul delights.”

This voice from Heaven is not just meant to be about Jesus. It’s about you and me too. God looks down at you and me and says, “This is my beloved son, this is my beloved daughter in whom my soul delights.” This is how God feels about you and me, whether we are eight days old, eight months, eight years or eighty-eight years old, no matter what we have or haven’t done, no matter what we do or don’t believe.… No matter what, God’s fundamental attitude towards us is this: delight. God delights in us. It makes me shiver just thinking about it. God looks upon us with delight. God loves us. God loves us even though we don’t always get it right. God loves us in spite of our failures and mistakes and doubts.  Baptism affirms this love that God has for us, the love has been there all along and will always be with us.

If you’ve seen Disney’s animated movie “The Lion King”, you may remember this scene where Simba, the young lion, runs away after his father, King Mufasa, dies. Simba is running away from his past, thinking he is responsible for his father’s death, and also away from his future as the next Lion King. At some point Simba looks into a deep pool of water and sees his own reflection. But when he looks again, Simba’s reflection becomes that of his father. His father’s image then appears to Simba in the sky, and we hear the unmistakable voice of James Earl Jones saying; ‘Remember who you are!”

Celtic scholar Philip Newell writes: “The gospel is given not to tell us that we have failed, but to make known to us what we have forgotten, and that is who we are.” We are created in God’s image, we are “fearfully and wonderfully made”, we are loved. It would do us good to remember who we are, or rather, whose we are. We are God’s beloved. Baptism helps us remember whose we are, that we belong to the family of God, that we are beloved children of God. That we are loved no matter what. 

A friend of mine, Alex Cook, is a chaplain, musician, and artist from the Boston area, and one of my favorite projects of his is called the “You Are Loved Mural Project”. It started when he was commissioned to paint a mural in a school in New Orleans with the mission to help the students feel safe. He started with just painting some nice warm-feeling colors. But he decided he didn’t have to subtle about it wanting kids to feel safe. So we painted the words: “You are loved. You are important. You are special. You are needed. You are a thinker. You can do it.” In this first mural, the letters were just a few inches tall, but in subsequent murals, the letters got taller and taller, some are 12 feet tall covering entire walls. He works with schools, businesses, worship groups, prisons, and organizations of all types; he sketches the design on a wall like a paint by number, and then invites community members, students, and families to come together and paint the mural. Since 1997, he has created over 180 murals all over the US and abroad, with the message “You are Loved.” He says this about the project: “At some point, everybody suffers from wondering if they are loved, if they are valuable, if they are worth anything. To not feel valuable can lead you in terrible directions in life. [The message that you are loved] is a message we all need to know. It can be an absolutely saving message. It might be the most central message I can think of. “You are loved” reaches to the darkest places. This message comes directly from God. This is a message that is true about everyone. If I believe it about me, and I know that I’ve done bad things in my life, it’s gotta be true about other people who have also done bad things.” He spreads the message of “You are loved” in order to make a more compassionate universe. His project has received some amazing response, including the testimony of one young man who was on the path to suicide when he came across a You Are Loved painting and decided not to kill himself. The message of “You are Loved” has literally saved lives. Sometimes that’s all we need to hear… you…are…loved.

God loves us. Once we grasp the fact that we are beautiful and loved, cherished and valued as God’s dearly beloved child, made in God’s very image, once we internalize that love, and become energized and transformed by that love, only then will we be able to reach out to others and share that love. Imagine the world we get if people think they are ugly, immoral failures, unloved and unlovable. But imagine the world we help to create if people believe they are beautiful, good, lovable and loved, without having to be perfect, without having to always get it right. My prayer for all of us is to know this, that:

You are needed.

You are important.

You are beautiful.

You are amazing

You are loved.

Amen. 



Sources:

http://www.youarelovedmurals.com/


Sunday, January 2, 2022

“2022 not 2020, too”, January 2, 2022

 2022 not 2020, too
By Rev. Jamie Green Klopotoski
Based on Matthew 2:1-12
January 2, 2022
First Baptist Church, Gloucester, MA

I hope that you are familiar with the song that John and I played for the anthem this morning, We Three Kings. The lyrics read: “We Three Kings of Orient are. Bearing gifts we traverse afar. Field and fountain, moor and mountain, following yonder star.” While I love this song, it got two pretty major things wrong about the bible story we read today from the gospel of Matthew. 

First: Matthew never calls these men that visited Jesus “kings” but instead uses the term “magi”, which means “astrologer.” These men studied the heavens and interpreted signs in the stars, and they were following one particularly bright star in the sky to the place where they hoped to meet the new king of the Jews who had just been born. 

Second: Matthew never tells us how many magi there were. But since Matthew mentions three gifts - gold, frankincense, and myrrh, Christians in the sixth century started telling the story of the three Magi, and they were even given names- Melchior, Balthasar, and Caspar.

Speaking of getting things wrong about these magi visitors, while the song “We Three Kings” is often sung during nativity plays, these men actually do not belong at the manger scene, because they did not see Jesus in the manger. They arrived at his house sometime later. Scholars say it could have been as late as two years after his birth, but most traditions say about 12 days, thus the “12 days of Christmas”. 12 days after Christmas Day is January 6, which is the holiday we call Epiphany, when we celebrate the arrival of the magi. 

By the way, had the magi been women, they would have asked for directions and gotten to baby Jesus on time; helped deliver the baby; cleaned the stable; made a casserole; and brought practical gifts like diapers and bottles.

Seriously though, whether or not there were three Magi or eight, whether or not they were kings or astrologers, whether or not they arrived at the manger or at Jesus’ house, and whether or not they were men or women, there is a lot for us to celebrate during Epiphany.  The term “epiphany” means "to show", "to make known", or "to reveal.” During Epiphany, we remember the Magi who first "revealed" Jesus as the light of the world. The Magi “made known” that something new and different was happening in the world, that light was coming to the darkness. 

As we embark on this new year, it would be good for us to be reminded of this message, that the light does indeed shine in darkness, because there is a lot of darkness in the world right now. The COVID pandemic. Crushing economic disparities, racism, devastating effects of climate change, homelessness, drug addiction, domestic abuse, rampant gun violence, disabling diseases and debilitating pain, a steep increase in depression, anxiety, and loneliness, a deepening sense of emptiness. 

In the midst of this dark, cold, bleak midwinter, our problems, disappointments, and failures may make us fear what the future may hold; may make us wonder whether the new year will really be any different at all, may make us question whether our dreams for a better life and a better world will ever be realized. Will this new year just be filled with all the same darkness as years past? A recent meme going around the internet sparked my attention: This is 2022, NOT 2020, too. It’s an apt mantra to hold in this new year, to believe that change is possible, that things can be different, that we don’t have to repeat our same old mistakes, that our hopes can be fulfilled. I reminded of a quote from the late Desmond Tutu, who was awarded the 1984 Nobel Peace Prize for his non-violent opposition against South Africa’s brutal system of apartheid. He once said, “Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.”  After he died last Sunday at the age of 90, UNESCO (the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization) tweeted: “Remember the difference one voice can make. Remember that even in the deepest darkness, human rights and fundamental freedoms will always be our guiding light.”

This reminded me of yet another quote, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” It is often attributed to Mahatma Gandhi, another champion of nonviolence and human rights, but while he never actually spoke these words, he definitely believed in the sentiment. A story is told of a young mother and her son waiting in line to visit with Gandhi. When it was their turn, the woman asked Gandhi to speak with her son to get him to eat less sugar.

Gandhi considered her request, but asked her to come back in two weeks and he would talk to the boy then. She wondered why he didn’t just speak to her son right then and there, but she complied. In two weeks they returned, and after waiting for a couple of hours, she was able to approach Gandhi once again.

Gandhi spoke with the boy, and got him to agree to begin working to eliminate sweets from his diet. After thanking Gandhi for his wise and encouraging words, the mother asked him why he had wanted them to wait two weeks instead of just offering his advice the first time.

Gandhi replied, “Upon your visit two weeks ago I too was eating too much sugar.” He explained that he could not encourage her son to not eat sugar if he himself had not taken that journey.

The message behind this story is clear: Whatever changes we would like to make in our society have to begin with our own individual actions, words, and beliefs. It’s like the old saying, “Practice what you preach.” We have to BE the change we want to see in the world.

This sounds like a great New Year’s resolution, doesn’t it? We can work on ourselves, we can make a change in our lives, we can take a new road, we can start over and try again to be the people God wants us to be, and by doing so, we can start to bring change to the world. But that’s easier said than done.  When you’re in the midst of the darkness, change can seem impossible. We lose hope. We lose faith. We are dragged down by apathy, lack of confidence, our physical or mental state, extreme caution, and fear –disabling, crippling, immobilizing fear. When we feel this way, the temptation is to stay with the familiar and the comfortable, to crawl back into bed and pull up the covers where it’s warm, safe, and secure. The temptation is to stay where we are – in the dark crevices of depression or defeat, in the deep, lethargic ruts of sameness.

But the bible has a message for us. In the midst of darkness, the Magi chose to follow the light. Isaiah tells the people of Israel to “Arise, shine; for your light has come…”  They no longer have to live in darkness and nor do we. We are called out of our darkness into the light. May we find the light of the world born in Bethlehem and be transformed from darkness into light. We have to believe, we have to have hope, that things can be different, that we can make a change. We don’t have to be held back by the past. It is 2022, not 2020, too! We can always start over, resurrection is always possible. May we know this truth, may we internalize this message. Light shines in the darkness. The night is always followed by the dawn. It’s like the lyrics from a song called “Endless Night” from the Lion King Broadway Musical:

“I know that the night must end
And that the sun will rise
I know that the clouds must clear
And that the sun will shine”

As you can probably guess, music is an important part of my spirituality, so I want to end by sharing with you the lyrics of another song called “Make a Change” by a band called Nahko and Medicine For The People.

I need a change, it’s evident
A transformation imminent
A chance for my soul’s intelligence 
to redefine lines of indifference
It comes at a cost, well that’s obvious
My list of distractions is infinite
I know that all of us are born with different gifts, so
Lift yourself from darkness, take a couple steps back
I got work to do, let me get back at it
I’m only human, bound to make some mistakes
I wanna walk in righteousness
But I keep tripping over ditches of my selfishness
I know this too shall pass, so I put it in the past
The beginning is near
I want the change, I will make a change

In this new year, God is calling out to each of us, whoever we are, whatever our circumstance, wherever we are on our journeys, to rise and shine, to make a change, to live in the light, and to share the light with the world. If you stumble on the way, and fall back into darkness, know that you can get back up and try again. And again and again and again. Amen.