Sunday, September 26, 2021

"Just a Coincidence?", September 26, 2021

"Just a Coincidence?"
By Rev. Jamie Green Klopotoski
Based on Esther 7:1-6, 9-10; 9:20-22
September 26, 2021
St Paul's Lutheran Church, Gloucester, MA
Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTGmFe0BbRA

The glasses were half full of water. And they were everywhere. Glasses of every shape, color, and size were on the kitchen counter, the coffee table, the bookshelves, even on the piano. In M Night Shyamalan’s 2002 movie “Signs,” 8 year old Beau never finishes the glasses of water that her father gives her when she is thirsty. She always claims that the water is contaminated or tastes funny, so she leaves these unfinished glasses of water all over the house.  Near the end of the movie (spoiler alert for anyone who hasn’t yet seen it!), aliens attack Beau’s house. The family is trying to fight them off, when an alien knocks over one of the many half full glasses of water. The water spills all over the alien, and all of a sudden the alien shrivels up and dies. The aliens’ weakness happens to be water and the world is saved because the family had easy access to tons of water to pour on the aliens, thanks to little Beau’s obsessive compulsive disorder with the very substance that could defeat the aliens.  Beau’s father foreshadows this moment when he says earlier in the movie: “There are two groups of people in the world. One believes that when something happens in their life, it’s a miracle. The other group believes in pure luck. Think of it this way- is it possible that there are no coincidences?” 

Once upon a time, there was a Persian king named Xerxes. After kicking his wife, Vashti, out of the palace for refusing to “entertain” his party guests, he ordered the loveliest women from his 127 provinces to come to the palace so he could choose a new queen. He chose Esther. Little did he know that Esther, an orphan living with her Uncle Mordecai, was a Jew, and, like all Jews at the time, she was in exile from the land of Israel, stuck living in places like Persia, and forced to hide her Jewish identity. 

In the king’s court there was also a wicked man named Haman (HAH-mahn). One day Haman ran into Mordecai in town, and Mordecai refused to bow down to him (being Jewish, Mordecai would only bow down to God). Haman was furious, and plotted to kill not just Mordecai, but ALL Jews, because he believed they were all troublesome foreigners who would never be loyal subjects. The King agreed to this ethnic cleansing plan of genocide, and used a lottery to choose the thirteenth day of the month of Adar (uh-DAHR) to be the day when all Jews would be slain. 

Obviously, the Jews were very distressed. Mordecai sent news of the plan to Esther up in the palace, begging her to help. “Who knows?” asked Mordecai, “maybe you have been put in the palace for a moment such as this. Maybe you can talk to the King, and get him to stop this from happening!” Though Esther was scared, she realized that she may be the only hope her people had. She invited the King to a banquet in a few days and planned to talk to him then. 

The night before the banquet, King Xerxes had trouble falling asleep so he ordered that the Book of Royal Records be read to him (because that would put anyone to sleep!). The section read happened to be about how Mordecai once prevented the King’s assassination. The king discovered that Mordecai had never been honored for this good deed, so right then, in the middle of the night, before he could forget, he summoned none other than Haman with instructions to give honor and praise to Mordecai! 

The next evening at the banquet, Esther found the courage to tell the King who she really was, Mordecai’s niece and a Jew, and she pleaded with the King to save her people and prevent the genocide that Haman had planned. The King, influenced by all these recent positive experiences with Jews, had a change of heart, and nixed the plan. Mordecai rejoiced, and wanted other Jews to rejoice as well; he sent letters to all the Jews throughout the provinces to have them celebrate annually the fourteenth and fifteenth days of the month of Adar. This Jewish holiday, celebrated in the spring each year, is called Purim (Poohr-im), which means “lots” after the lottery used to choose the date of the prevented genocide. On Purim, the Jews read the entire book of Esther, to remember the story of how she happened to be the right place at the right time to save her people. 

One more story, this time about me. When I was 6 years old, I moved from Chicago to Beloit, Wisconsin. One of the first people I met and became friends with was a neighbor girl my age named Dara. She invited me to join an after school kid’s drama group at her church. I decided to try it out, even though I was nervous, because it would be the first time I had ever stepped into a church. After a few delightful sessions, the  very nice youth minister running the program invited me to come to a church service on Sunday. I decided to try it out, and Dara’s parents were willing to drive me. The people at the church were incredibly welcoming and loving, and I started attending every Sunday, not with my parents, but with Dara’s parents driving me each week until I could drive myself. I was baptized there, and confirmed, I joined the youth choir and youth group and volunteered with Vacation Bible School. As a college freshman, I felt my initial call to ministry there. And now, of course, I am an ordained minister. That church changed my life; everyone there genuinely loved and cared for me when I felt like no one else did, and they introduced me to a God who loved and cared for me too. If it wasn’t for Dara’s invitation and the kindness of her parents, the love of the youth minister, and the welcome of the church members, I most definitely would not be who I am today. 

Speaking of today, let me also tell you the story of how I got signed up to preach here.  This summer, I was invited by my friend and musical colleague, Dave, to join a volunteer Big Band in Peabody, and I just happened to have Thursday mornings available, so I said yes. During our first gathering, one of the trumpet players, Bob, who conducts the Rockport Legion Band, asked me to join that band since he really needed saxophone players. I said yes to that as well. During one of our concerts in Rockport, I played a solo and Bob introduced me to the audience as an ordained minister. One of your parishioners, Martha, who plays French Horn in the band, just happened to hear that and just happened to be looking for guest preachers for this church, so after the concert she approached me about preaching here. Again, if it wasn’t for the invitation, welcome, and kindness of Dave and Bob and Martha, and my willingness to try something new and say yes, I literally would not be here today. 

The sequence of events that occurred in my life, and the lives of Beau and Esther seem like mere coincidences. A coincidence that Beau left glasses of water all over the house and a coincidence that water was the alien’s weakness. A coincidence that Esther, a Jew, moved into the Persian palace and became Queen, and a coincidence that the King couldn’t sleep the night before Esther’s banquet and was read a story about Esther’s uncle. A coincidence that I moved to Beloit, met Dara, and joined a drama group at her church. A coincidence that I met Martha at the Rockport Legion Band. But I argue these events are not just mere coincidences; they are opportunities. These strategically placed people and events are like tiny gifts from the universe, tiny miracles from God, signs of God working in the background of all of our lives through divinely orchestrated events, putting the right people in the right places at the right times. The book of Esther convinces me that people are put in our lives for a reason, and we are put into the lives of others for a reason. We are each like those half full glasses of water, we are all different sizes and shapes and colors, but each of us are placed on the right coffee table and the perfect bookcase, to be used at the right time to do something great, maybe even to save the world.          

St. Teresa of Ávila once said: “Christ has no body but yours. No hands, no feet on earth but yours. Yours are the eyes with which he looks compassion on this world. Yours are the feet with which he walks to do good. Yours are the hands with which he blesses all the world.” I think that the coincidences we experience in our lives are opportunities for us to be the hands and feet of Christ. Beau’s family didn’t ignore the signs; they used those miraculously placed glasses of water to save the world. Esther didn’t ignore the position of the power she happened to be in to save her people. Dara and her parents and the youth minister and that church in Beloit didn’t ignore the new girl put into their lives, and they saved me. It may be scary, it definitely takes some bravery, and you may have to step outside of your comfort zone, but if we allow God to use us for a greater purpose, we really can make a difference in the world. 

We need to be on the lookout for miracles disguised at coincidences, for times in our lives when we can act on behalf of God, when we can be that voice a person needs to hear, when we can be the Beau, or the Esther, or the Dara is someone’s life. The next time you just “happen” to bump into someone, maybe consider that it’s not just a coincidence, maybe it’s an opportunity. Maybe they are hurt and need your love. Maybe they are lost and need your guidance. Maybe they are sad and need your sense of humor. Whatever the reason, consider that they came your way on purpose. 

And whenever we are the recipient of someone’s kind action, be thankful. Celebrate like the Jews do on Purim! Show your gratitude for the important role they played in your life. They may not even know they made such a difference.  

Let us take advantage of divinely orchestrated moments, when the universe aligns, when we end up in the right place at the right time.  Let us be ready to be God’s hands and feet in this world. Let us be open to the possibilities and brave enough to act. My favorite verse from the Book of Esther is one from chapter 4, when her uncle tells her, “Who knows, perhaps you were made queen for just such a time as this?” Because who knows, maybe you are where you are right now, for such a time as this. Amen.


Sunday, September 19, 2021

"The World Turned Upside Down", September 19, 2021

 The World Turned Upside Down
By Rev. Jamie Green Klopotoski
Based on Mark 9:30-37
September 19, 2021
St Paul's Lutheran Church, Gloucester MA
Watch here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APeOknk_LDk&t=1265s

I have to admit … I love video games. Especially during the pandemic, I’ve spent a lot of time in the world of video games. My favorite games are called RPGs (Role Playing Games), where you control a team of characters on their journey to save the world. They stick with you until the very end of the game. You level them up, buy them new equipment, make them stronger, and follow their stories for hours. You get to know them so well that you almost become them (thus the “role-playing” moniker). In almost every RPG I’ve played, these heroes do not and cannot die- it is an expectation for this genre of games (just like it is expected that Superman and Batman and Spiderman don’t die because they are the heroes!). But one of my favorite games, an RPG from 1997 called “Final Fantasy VII”, overturns this key expectation. One of the main characters dies in the middle of the game. She is an upbeat, joyful, young girl with a hopeful and positive outlook on life even after growing up in the slums who has a passion to save the world and to protect the environment, and after 18 hours of playing with her, getting to know her and her backstory, loving her, and caring for her… she dies.

In the video game world, this is arguably one of the most emotional moments in any game in existence. It makes grown men and stoic teenagers cry. The first time I played this game, I was absolutely shocked, and stared at the screen in disbelief. There was no way she was actually dead. She was going to come back, right? Right? She can’t be dead and gone forever?!  That’s not how video games are supposed to work. But after several more hours of playing without her, I realized she was gone for good.

You may be wondering where I’m going with all this video game talk. Well, I was reminded of this shockingly unbelievable moment when the hero dies and all expectations are turned upside down, after reading this week’s passage from the Gospel of Mark. First, Jesus tells his disciples of his impending death, and they do not understand; there’s no way Jesus can die, he’s supposed to be the savior! Then after arguing about who is the greatest, Jesus tells his disciples that the last will be first, that a small, insignificant child is actually greater than them all. This scripture is just one of many, many examples of Jesus rejecting the status quo, breaking all expectations, and turning the world upside down. Jesus broke all the rules, and every time he did, it was incredibly shocking to his 1st century audience.

For generations, stories were told of a messiah who would come to save Israel, so by the time of Jesus, the Israelites had many expectations about what this savior might look like. They imagined him as a rich and powerful king, a dignified, strong, and mighty warrior, grasping a gleaming sword and riding in on a tall white warhorse with a large army of fearsome soldiers to violently defeat the Roman empire. What they got was a baby born to a poor, unmarried young girl in a stable amidst cows and sheep; a carpenter who preached peace and nonviolence and rode into Jerusalem on a donkey waving an olive branch, gathered by children and outcasts. It was the exact opposite of everyone’s expectations. And it was shocking.

Jesus did everything he wasn’t “supposed” to do: he touched the unclean, dined with sinners, and washed the feet of his disciples. Instead of touting the power of Israel’s most sophisticated weapons, Jesus preached of peaceful shepherds and beating swords into plowshares. He said crazy things like the mighty would be cast down from their thrones and the lowly would be lifted up, blessed are the poor, peace is the way, love your enemies, forgive seventy times seven times, feed the hungry, be the last in order to be the first. Ultimately, Jesus was executed by the establishment who found his subversiveness too great a threat. And that was the most shocking of all. The hero died at the end. That wasn’t supposed to happen!

From refugee in a manger to rebel on the cross, Jesus rocked the boat, challenged the status quo, and overturned expectations. So, what does that mean for us? What does it mean for our lives if we truly follow this subversive Jesus who came to turn everything upside-down? Does understanding Jesus in this way make a difference in how we live our lives? I think it does.

At least for me, one thing it does is make me question the societal pressure to “get ahead” and “climb the ladder of success.” In today’s scripture, I think Jesus is trying to tell us that life isn’t supposed to be a competition to become the most important, greatest, top dog. The goal of life isn’t to climb over others to get to the top; the goal is to serve those at the bottom. Life’s not about what you acquire, achieve, or earn, but how much you love and share. It’s not about getting up high to look down on others, dominating, intimidating, exploiting, defeating, or excluding them. It’s about seeing the image of God in each and every single animal, plant, and human being, and extending to all a radical amount of unconditional love.

What if we listened to what Jesus was trying to tell us? What if we measured our success, our greatness, not by what we took in but by what we gave away, not by the amount of influence we wield but by the service we offer, not by accumulating more but by sharing what we already have, not by being first but by working hard to see others move ahead? What kind of world would we live in? I don’t know about you, but I think it would be a pretty great world. Make no mistake, this is hard stuff, absolutely and totally different from what our culture – whether in the first century or the twenty-first – tells us. It overturns all expectations; it’s shocking to our system.

But can you imagine if, instead of trying to be the richest or the most powerful, people were regularly vying to be the most kind, the most loving, the best human they could be? If CEOs and companies were praised for how much they gave away not how much they earned? If a country’s greatness was measured by how welcoming, hospitable, and equitable it was rather than by the size of its gross domestic product? If national news programs featured those who were willing to be last so that others could go first? If reality TV shows followed those who tried to help as many people as possible? If villains in movies didn’t have to be killed in the end but could somehow be transformed with love?

On that last point, I have a story to share from a podcast I listen to called “Revisionist History” by Malcolm Gladwell. Recently he aired a three-part series about Disney’s 1989 blockbuster hit, “The Little Mermaid”. He describes how if you take a hard critical look at the movie, you quickly realize that the lessons it teaches are not at all the lessons you would actually want to pass on to children. For example, the heroine, Ariel, has to give up her voice, her identity, to be accepted. She goes from being an independent young woman full of life and adventure, intelligence and verve, to being completely dependent on a man and his kiss. At the end of the movie, what rescues Ariel from a very problematic contract, involving child slavery with the villain Ursula, is violence. Ursula isn’t arrested or tried in court or rehabilitated, she is gruesomely murdered. Scholar Laura Beth Neilson commented, “It’s too bad they couldn’t work this out a different way.” Gladwell set out to do just that, and hired screen writer Brit Marling to reimagine a new ending for “The Little Mermaid.”

Instead of a fight scene at the end of the movie, imagine this new scene: Ariel hugs Ursula. Ursula struggles to get away but Ariel keeps her arms wrapped around Ursula in a loving embrace. The force of Ariel’s feeling gains the power of actual magic, she gets her voice back, and she uses it to say to Ursula, “You hurt me, but I understand why you hurt me. I know you have suffered greatly. And even though you made me suffer greatly, too, I don’t hate you Ursula.” Ursula scoffs but her eyes go wide with feeling, no one has said a kind word to her in years.  Ariel continues, “In time, understanding you better and why you’ve done the things you’ve done, I could even love you. You’ve taught me the power of my voice; I could even thank you for that.” Ursula weeps, and apologizes. Ariel accepts her apology. By the heat of Ariel’s love, Ursula is transformed from an evil octopus, an outcast living at the bottom of the sea whom everyone else is revolted, disgusted, and horrified by, into someone who could be redeemed and who, like anyone else, deserved a chance at happiness. And when Ariel’s father King Triton tries to kill Ursula, Ariel throws herself in harm’s way to protect her. Ariel then uses her voice to sing, and soon everyone joins with her. Anger begins to subside. Hearts begin to soften. All together, they create beautiful music. The proud vain old king cannot help but be moved by his daughter’s magic to unite across genders, generations, and species. Ariel tells him, “You don’t need to be the most powerful, to be the most loved.”

The new Ariel does the unexpected, she sacrifices herself for someone who is conceived of as irredeemable, she loves her enemy, she uses words and kindness instead of weapons and hate. Sound familiar? These are the same counter-cultural actions that Jesus took. Jesus turned the world upside-down by declaring a new way of life where true greatness is measured in kindness, the bad guy can be redeemed, the enemy can be loved, the outcast can be welcomed, sins can be forgiven, darkness can be transformed, love can overcome hate. This is the Kingdom of God, my friends, and we can help make it a reality, right here, right now, on earth as it is in heaven. It won’t be easy, and it may be shocking to our friends, family, loved ones… it may be shocking to ourselves. It may be uncomfortable. And we won’t always get it right. But we can start with even the smallest actions in our daily lives- put away your shopping cart, help someone cross the street, clean up after yourself, pick up trash when out for a walk, rake someone’s yard, buy less plastic, don’t forget your reusable shopping bags, make life easier for others, do work that you ordinarily would leave for someone else to do, speak up when you hear something racist or sexist or unkind, donate money, donate time. If you have any kind of power in your life, use it for good, to lift up others, to advocate for those less fortunate than you. And especially during this particular time we find ourselves living in, wear a mask, get vaccinated, be kind and patient to overworked and underpaid restaurant servers and retail store staff and hospital workers. Be bold, be brave, be shocking, turn the world upside down. Amen.


Sources:

https://www.davidlose.net/2018/09/pentecost-18-b-a-different-kind-of-greatness/

https://asermonforeverysunday.com/sermons/b43-the-seventeenth-sunday-after-pentecost-year-b/

https://shuckandjive.blogspot.com/2009/04/easter-for-non-religious-sermon.html

https://www.pushkin.fm/episode/little-mermaid-part-1-the-golden-contract/

https://www.pushkin.fm/episode/little-mermaid-part-2-the-fairytale-twist/

https://www.pushkin.fm/episode/little-mermaid-part-3-honestly-ever-after/

Saturday, September 18, 2021

The Light I've Known

Here I go again, another attempt at a blog! I hope that this becomes a place for me to post my sermons, as I have started preaching again, but I may also post other musings, thoughts and dreams. 

The title of this blog is inspired by a song called "Luminous" by the late Alice and the Glass Lake; she was from Madison, Wisconsin (my home state) and died from leukemia at age 28. This song really speaks to me at this time in my life where I have yet again pressed the Reset Button; I have started over with my dreams and mission and journey in life. After stumbling around in the darkness I yet again find myself grasping for the light.

"In the corners of every room
Through the floors
Comes the light from an open sill
Little windows
Paint the sheets of a silver moon
Make ‘em glow
This is the, this is the light I've known
So long I see it running through you 
Through you 
Oh, Love Runs through you 

One star 
One sky 
Fill up my old heart 
With new light 
I'll take all I can 
Loving in the moment 
Is something luminous 

Shimmer down from my fingertips 
Subtle warmth 
To the brim with brilliance 
Reborn 
Feel the power in every limb 
I'm not alone 
This is the this is the light I've known 
Would come along-long-long"


 ♥Jamie